There are so many moments in our day that take our breath away. Not the moments that we want to take in and let expand. Those moments that are so big and beautiful our heart swells with joy. I'm not referring to that. Instead, I'm speaking to the moment a stranger's hand grabs your breast, or eyes undress you on the subway. It's scary moments of feeling vulnerable as you walk alone in an empty parking lot, and irked by a mansplainer.